People who take revenge immediately are definitely less scary than those who strike after a period of time, because the former forgets but the latter remembers after the event.
1) They plan. 君子报仇，十年不晚。
2) Psychological assaults taken from other(s) over a period of time will be released heavily as one shot when the time is right. 卧薪尝胆
Generally the longer the period of psychological hurt, the heavier the impact of the retaliation.
To continue 睁一只眼，闭一只眼 and be nice or not? After all, 水能载舟，亦能覆舟。Once I reach the limit, anything happens. Even though it isn't often, but those who bore the full brunt didn't dare to try again.
I still believe in 善有善报，恶有恶报，不是不报，时辰未到，时辰一到，一切都报 though.
Tuesday, November 23
Friday, November 19
Order in a whirl
Constant work even in the holidays. Feeling tired. Seriously. But have to keep going.
And I will.
Now's the start of the real challenge. Now I understand why they asked "What's your motivation?" If it isn't clear, I can never carry on. I can see now.
Oh no I'm not giving up. Far from it.
For myself. For the unit. For the juniors. In no order particular. I will continue.
To achieve. To lead. To inspire. And I will do it my way.
That's the way. I love it. =D
And I will.
Now's the start of the real challenge. Now I understand why they asked "What's your motivation?" If it isn't clear, I can never carry on. I can see now.
Oh no I'm not giving up. Far from it.
For myself. For the unit. For the juniors. In no order particular. I will continue.
To achieve. To lead. To inspire. And I will do it my way.
That's the way. I love it. =D
Saturday, October 30
Back to normal
It feels good to be back to normal. To think the formula is just be myself. Acting isn't my forte. Brings forth uncertainty. I agree. Haven't brought out much good by trying to be some one that isn't me. And of course others surely find out. Didn't know what I had to do previously, so conformed to the norm. I followed what the picture in my head was, gathered over the years. A Gargantuan mistake. Definitely.
I was thoroughly relieved after the open-up talk. I was waiting for it. And even though it wasn't nice at all, far from nice, I appreciated it. At least I know my strengths now. In the past, I only know my looming number of weaknesses, but never could put together words to describe my strengths. For the first time, I had people voicing out my strengths and explaining how I could use them. The recipe is just to be myself. It's that simple. I couldn't really believe it. To blend in and complement, I just need to be natural. Sounds too easy, but makes sense. One can only succeed if he is himself. Trying to be different from yourself will inevitably fall flat on your face. Though I can't guarantee that I'll definitely fit into the existing styles, there's a high chance I can. I will try hard. To do my best to be myself and contribute. =)
I was thoroughly relieved after the open-up talk. I was waiting for it. And even though it wasn't nice at all, far from nice, I appreciated it. At least I know my strengths now. In the past, I only know my looming number of weaknesses, but never could put together words to describe my strengths. For the first time, I had people voicing out my strengths and explaining how I could use them. The recipe is just to be myself. It's that simple. I couldn't really believe it. To blend in and complement, I just need to be natural. Sounds too easy, but makes sense. One can only succeed if he is himself. Trying to be different from yourself will inevitably fall flat on your face. Though I can't guarantee that I'll definitely fit into the existing styles, there's a high chance I can. I will try hard. To do my best to be myself and contribute. =)
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